Bee Sting Praise
About 8 years ago, we had some friends over to celebrate my son's birthday. It was an amazing day of food, fellowship, friends, and family. We were able to attend church, hear an awesome message from the Lord, come home, BBQ, play, and have a great afternoon. Once everyone left, it was fun to sit and watch my son play with his new toys. After we straightened up the house, my wife and I were going to do our workout. We were about 30 minutes in, and then we hear the scream that all parents fear. The type of scream that can not be described, but one that every parents can nod their head in agreement that they fear. It came from outside. All three kids were playing out back.
The moment I laid eyes on my girl, I knew what took place. For the third time in the last two summers, our girl has been stung by a bee. The first time, screaming, crying, etc. The second time, screaming, crying, a little puffiness and itching. Last night, her eyes started to close, she broke out in hives, and was feeling itchy all over. At that moment, my wife and I connected eyes and said, "ER". Both of our fear was her throat would start to close, or worse. We have not had allergic reactions like this in our family. So this was another parenting first. She was checked in to the ER, and just a few hours later, came home exhausted, and back to normal size. So what's the result? We now have to carry an epi pen with us because if she's stung again, she could go in to anaphylactic shock.
Yet through all of this, my wife and I have developed an overwhelming feeling of thankfulness and peace. We both understand that our children do not belong to us. They belong to the Lord. He is the one that has entrusted them to us. We will do our best to protect them from the hurts and pains in this life, both physically and emotionally. But we also understand there are certain things that will happen that will be beyond our scope of parental super powers. This is where faith and trust enter the scene as parents. We must fully trust in the Lord and have faith that our children will be protected. Now when something goes wrong, we don't point a finger at God and blame Him for allowing them to get hurt. That's not why bad things happen. My daughter getting stung by a bee and developing a bee allergy is not God's absence from our lives. It's in those times that we draw closer to God. Just like my wife said to me,
"I'm feeling overwhelmed with thankfulness this morning. I think the kids need to know how blessed we are. This could have happened somewhere out of reach of the closest hospital. God's timing is perfect, no matter the circumstance. I think that's lost on most people, including me. Until now! The Lord is teaching us and growing us!"
Even in fear, my wife's perspective is spot on! It is in situations like this that we should seek the Lord and find answers in Him, not point fingers and blame Him for allowing things like this to happen. There are things in life that are way beyond our control. Many things too numerous to list. So why be anxious and worry about things that we don't have any control over? Like it says in Matthew 6:25-34, will worrying add any length of time to our lives? Not a single nano-second. We trust in the Lord with all our heart, and have faith to acknowledge Him in every situation, good or bad.
Now Cam, let's get serious here for a minute. Your daughter was stung by a bee. You're talking to me about drawing close the Lord and seeking Him because of a bee sting? Let's wait until something more serious happens, then we'll talk about God's protection over your life.
Let me tell you why I run to the Lord for protection and thankfulness. Because I trust in His word in all things. This is what He tells me:
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." (Proverbs 3:5,6)
See what it says there? "In ALL your ways". This is not exclusive to only when things go bad, or when you're in a 911 scenario. In good times, in bad. Happy or sad. Joy or suffering. My God is to be praised, sought after, and thanked. So when I receive my paycheck, I will thank Him. When my daughter gets stung by a bee, I will thank Him. As hard as it is for me to say, if I were to lose one of them, I will strive with all of my being to give Him thanks. Why? Because in and through every situation, He is deserving of thanksgiving and praise. It's extremely difficult to see your children get hurt, physically or emotionally. But it is in these situations that we can draw closer to the One who holds the world in the palm of His hand. It is in these situations that we can teach our children that God is in control and has a perfect plan for our lives. We must trust in Him, and Him alone!
"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
